Saturday, April 18, 2009

People, esp dramas, used to use the reason 'We are like 2 parallel lines that will never meet, thus I'm not suitable for you."

However, after today, I realised that parallel lines are not that bad after all. At least the parallel lines will be by each other's side at all times though they will never meet. AND this will last forever.
On the other hand, what's so good about being perpendicular to each other? Perpendicular lines will only meet so as to drift further apart... AND the distance will only increase as time passes. Note: Sadly, they will never meet again...

So lesson learnt: Once something close to u have left, it will never return.
(no matter how hard u tried) It's gone forever.

What do I need? What I need is some (ok, actually lots of) personal time and space...

Vivian imagined this on 00:25

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

若想照顾一个人,你就得以实际行动来证明,而不是每天把它放在嘴边。
就如栽种盆栽一般,你得无时无刻的替它浇水、施肥,而不是人来疯,有时太多有时又太少。
若看似没主见,终天听从父母的话,那怎么能使人放心地去依赖呢?
不是说听从父母的话不好。其实十分赞成听从父母这回事,因为那表示对他们的尊重和孝顺,只是觉得有些事应该可以自己做主了。若说要独立,就应该百分百的学习独立而不是该独立的事不独立而不该独立的事却坚持要靠自己。真不解那是什么道理。
虽然知道你的好,但却似乎不懂得珍惜。难道真的得等到失去之后才会后悔吗?
每当不在,牵挂便一连串地袭击着大脑。
但当声传到耳边,却又会无端端地感到烦躁。
究竟哪里出了问题??是时间?是你?是我?还是我们?怎么想也想不清。嗨...
最近更是奇怪,需要不知在哪儿,不需要时又粘得喘不过气。
沟通也出现了问题。曾尝试改变,但强势的性格,往往导致死都不认输、不低头的态度。
虽然一点也不计较,反而还心甘情愿,但是却不由得感到惭愧,感觉好像是一个蛮不讲理的人。
究竟是什么导致了这180度性格上的改变?总而言之,只想做/找回自己,那带有冲劲,满怀抱负,同时又懂得谅解及体恤他人的傻大姐。其实,活得开心最重要。:D

P.S. 发现我已经好久没BLOG了。haha. 应该是有感而发吧!好像使用了满多的比喻和模糊语言哦。修辞熏陶之下的严重后果... :P

Vivian imagined this on 00:44